Sending your partner a romantic text can be really exciting. Personally, I love the idea of being able to spice things up while he’s at work or in class. Figuring out the perfect romantic thing to text is easy. It doesn’t have to be complicated at all. Just a little bit on how you miss him, or a risque message will be enough to get his attention.
Less is More
I’m not going to lie, it can be hard to say what you want to in a text. Most phones limit you to a certain length, but with a well placed smiley or abbreviation you can get any steamy meaning across. For loving, “I miss you” kind of messages, try using a heart, like <3. If you want to be playful, you can stick your tongue out, like :p, or if you want to be a little provocative, try a wink ;).
A Message, Romantically
I’ve found the easiest way to inject a little romance into my texts is to use a pet name, or throw in wink now an then. You can say whatever you want! Some things will make him drop whatever he’s doing to come see you, while others will put a smile on his face. If you want him over right now, try something like, “Remember _____? Let’s try it!” You can fill in the blank with whatever romantic thing you like. If you just want to let him know that you’re thinking about him, try a regular ol’ “missing you” message, or relate something from your day. Sure, sometimes you can come off as corny, especially if you use the same message a lot, but the sentiment is clear. Sometimes you can go for maximum corny, which is good for a laugh. Whether the message is sweet or naughty, it’s bound to be a hit.
I really like the corny messages, but just remember it’s not for everyone. A lot of guys don’t like texting a lot, so you’ll have to be concise. For that type, I recommend going for gold and letting him know what you’re up to and what you want. “Let’s go out tonight,” or “Waiting for you with ____” are great, just fill in the blank with your favorite marital aid. Not so hard, right?
Any Time is a Good Time
I love the idea of arousing my guy’s passions while he’s away, and sending a romantic message is the perfect way to do it (unless you don’t mind sending naughty pictures, but that’s a different conversation!) Sending off a romantic text to your special somebody is a super easy, convenient way to let them know you’re thinking about them. I know, it can be difficult to come up with a romantic message on the fly. Actually, I had the same problem. My therapist recommended the whole romantic text thing, and in my research, I found They have an awesome blog and the book has a ton of useful tips. They kick started my relationship, and you know, I bet they can help you out too.